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faceless
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Jun-01-12, 05:53 PM (CST)
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"why?"
 
   I am 27 year old man. And I found out that I have herpes 1 & 2... I feel so alone and confuse. I feel like is over for me to find a woman, and have a life. I had to break up with a beautiful, smart,and wonderful woman... I've been dating for two weeks... so I won't effect her. Is like every time I get good things, the bad have to come alone with it. I have never cried so long , as i did today. It hurts so much... I woke up, wishing it was a dream, hopping that the test was wrong, and was a mistaken of the lab, but this is my reality , and I now have to face the fact, that I'm going to be...alone.


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Raven00144
Member since Sep-9-07
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Jun-01-12, 09:17 PM (CST)
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1. "RE: why?"
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   Let us slow down a bit here. What are your symptoms and how were you diagnosed. . . . by a blood test, a swab/culture or a visual? If you can get a copy of your test results, you can post the results here (minus personal info) and the great people here can interupt them for you. We have a saying here and that is 'you never end a good relationship or stay in a bad one because of HSV. If you had correct testing done and you do indeed have genital HSV then this is not the end of the world that you feel it is now. Many of us felt this way at first. In time you will see that this virus is just a pest at best and really rather minor in the whole scheme of things.

This virus can be managed and you do not have to be alone unless you choose to be.

Raven00144


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faceless
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Jun-04-12, 04:15 PM (CST)
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2. "RE: why?"
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   It was a blood test, and i when n gone for a second opinion...and still came out positive. I know this is not the end, but having this makes me feel so dirty, and ashamed of myself... i guess it takes time... but thanks for your kind words...


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allyssah_22
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Oct-21-12, 05:49 PM (CST)
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   I seriously feel the same way... I cry all the time. Because its like i cant believe someone wouldnt be honest with me about having this virus and give it to me. I could never do that to anyone. I feel disgusting and i hate myself. i feel like i cant tell anyone. but then i get drunk and i cant hold in my emotions.


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