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Jul-24-12, 06:38 AM (CST)|
1. "RE: first rejection, depressed, angry -anyone else ?"|
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Wow, I am sorry this has happened to you but try to remember that rejection over anything hurts, especially over something that we cannot not control but only manage. You seem to be managing this well with taking meds to suppress OBs and you have armed yourself with information. |
The sad thing is that he is safer having unprotected sex with you that knows she has this virus and is taking steps to prevent transmission than he is having unprotected sex with the 1 in 4 women that will test positive for HSVII and not know that they have it. Statistically if he has had sex with more than 4 women, then he has been exposed to this virus.
If he has done the research on this infection and then decided not to be with you outside of friendship, then I could say he is making a well informed decision. If he has not done the research on this virus, then it is doubtful that he will do any kind of research on anything, like buying a car, a house, computer, etc. and he is not the type of person I would want in my life. Maybe he has done you a favor that you will see in time.
Try to remember that you are still the same great person that you have always been and that dating is hard with or without HSV.
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