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Jul-28-12, 05:41 AM (CST)|
"The New Phase..."|
Hey all!! I'm glad I found this forum...now I can talk! Lol...to make a long story short...I was diagnosed with HSV2 in October of last year. My boyfriend at the time wasn't concerned AT ALL...it sounds sweet but consider the fact that I had been tested for herpes in July of that year and tested negative...it was a problem. He and I had been together and sexually active since February of that year so it raised a million questions in my confused mind! I chose to overlook how nonchalant he was because it felt good to have someone accept me with my new found, life long best friend (as I like to call it). But recently, along with other things...I decided to end the relationship because I simply could not trust him. He FINALLY decided to get tested for HSV in April of this year...but he kept it a secret that he did and that he tested positive. He also kept it a secret that he in fact had experienced outbreaks around that time. It took him MONTHS to address the issue and when he finally did...he didn't tell me! Idk...it just all seems shady and I totally resent him for that. |
SO...now I am SINGLE, extremely happy with my decision, and excited at the possibility of the real love of my life...but HER-FREAKIN-PES is in the picture! Lol...it's worrying me crazy. I'm a sexual being...as we humans tend to be...and I love affection and the idea of having sex and it's all passionate and just a result of the vibe in the room...but I can no longer do that because I HAVE to give this disclaimer before any type of engagement. Talk about a mood killer! Even with protection, I will just feel guilty if I don't tell my partner about my status (I'm HUGE on knowing your status and knowing risks)...but I feel like I'm going to be throwing my chances away of a care free night of hot passion! Lol (protected hot passion of course)...How on earth do you deal when things are hot n heavy in the moment and you kinda HAVE to share the news??
Oh...Herpes and I have a pretty decent relationship so that's why my tone is playful. If it's gonna live with me...it kinda has to have a sense of humor as well!
But I would LOVE some feedback and maybe some experiences you all wouldn't mind sharing!
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