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Mar-11-16, 11:33 PM (CST)|
"How Often do I need to repeat The Tell?"|
Hi Everyone, long time since I was last here, which is a good thing I guess? I need a little input and maybe reassurance on a situation...|
There's someone I've been involved with on and off for the past 6.5 years. It's a long distance relationship, and we frequently go long long periods of time without seeing each other but stay in touch on a regular basis. He does not have herpes. When we first got together, I was upfront about my H status and he was accepting of it. We always used condoms when we were together. After telling him initially all those years ago, I've never discussed it with him again. We didn't see each other for three years and then had an opportunity to spend some time together a few weeks ago. How do I put this.. he surprised me at the door and before I knew it we were having sex... without a condom. After that first time, I didn't bother for the rest of the weekend. He had a big box of them there, he just never used them and I didn't remind him.
Now I'm feeling awful, and concerned for him. Should I have continually reminded him about my status given the breaks in time between our times together? If it's been almost a month, I am hoping that he's "in the clear" but I know that really isn't the case.
Ok, give me your thoughts. I can take it.
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